ooo, he found my website!

Got a phone call from the ex a few hours ago. He found my web­site…  ‘course he’s not try­ing to cause trouble.

He could have called his mother to get his daughter’s (who is NOT his daugh­ter any­more) phone num­ber. Then he could have called the daugh­ter directly and relayed the message.

So, Mr. Ex— Mr. Denial him­self.  Ok, you found my web­site, and you have a phone num­ber that doesn’t come to my house. Thankfully!

By find­ing my web­site, you prob­a­bly know I prob­a­bly live in Dou­glas County, Ore­gon.  You might even have fig­ured out I’m in it’s south­ern end.

Here’s my mes­sage to you!!!  You don’t need to call me, not even to give a mes­sage to a kid.  Your mes­sage today was much less a mes­sage about Pam, as it was a mes­sage to let me know you found me. WooooHOOOOOOOOOOO!  Obvi­ously, you’ve not changed.

I’ve got news for you, I’m happy, I’m healthy, I’m hap­pily mar­ried to a man who doesn’t beat me up nightly and then tell me he’s just “play­ing” and that it’s “wrestling”… He’s never bruised me and no more of my teeth have been cracked, chipped, or bro­ken. I’ve never cried, and through my tears asked him if he felt big because of the way he treated me.

Leave me alone. Stay away from me. We are NOT friends. Far as I could tell, our mar­riage was a sham from the beginning–you never took the time to ‘know’ me, or love me…  I was prop­erty, I was used and abused.

There is a major league fence around my prop­erty. With “NO TRESPASSING” all over it. There have been talks with local law offi­cials about how legal our set up is in terms of tres­passers and prosecution.

Do not step on to my prop­erty. DO NOT enter my door.

Let’s just say if you do, I know how to pro­tect myself, and I WILL!!

We might run into each other, maybe at child’s wed­ding, but my guess is that the more time goes on the less chance there is even of that hap­pen­ing.  If we do, we can be peace­ful. I won’t acknowl­edge you because I don’t have to. The adop­tion of my chil­dren and the removal of YOU on their birth cer­tifi­cates means I can totally deny your exisi­tance.  Do not walk up to me and expect con­ver­sa­tion.  Our ideas of ‘real­ity’ are too far apart to ever rec­on­cile.  This why I FILED FOR DIVORCE!

If this isn’t a strong enough mes­sage than noth­ing ever will be.
Just don’t call me again, & stay away too!

Thank you